I mean that you are trying to quit. And more specifically you are trying to make a leap. He wants to jump from its current status of closure towards freedom. I.e., he wants to go from its current situation towards a qualitatively superior status. In what our bird is wrong is in not giving first 5 necessary steps.
Now we learn from their mistakes and avoid repeating them. Here are the steps: first thing: devotes time to reflect on your life. Think about the things you think you need to consider yourself done. You do not have them only in the mind, write them on a sheet of paper. And on she sees discarding all things that are not so important. In the end leave only those that you are essential to succeed.
The second thing: defines what problems you have to overcome to reach your goals. tion. Write everything on paper. View organizing these issues in order of importance. You focus on them. It is important that what you’re proposing is workable somehow. Not be as what was proposed our bird hitting the glass. Third thing: reflects on the way to achieve what was proposed. There has to be a way to progress towards the achievement of your dreams. And very importantly, you prepare alternatives. The plan can not be too rigid. It is normal that the plans do not never reach full success. Try ahead of what may happen and be prepared the variants that you are going to use. That is why you have to think in several ways to achieve your goals, not in one. The fourth: very important: make decisions. Decides the total commitment on what you have thought to do. You’re not playing, what you’ve proposed is very serious. So you trataras it as such. You have to be able to decide clearly on what they will do. Avoid ambiguities. And the Fifth: acts, runs the same decisions you took in the previous step. That should have done our dear little bird. And that we must do many times in life.